I don't know when we stopped pretending to play dress-up and started planning weddings, but somehow we're here and the in between is just a blur. I caught up with my high school best friends in Aptos, CA for a bachlorette outing this weekend and was able to just stand still for a moment and look back. As I took in the ocean, so much seemed so far, the firsts, the people, the laughs. Yet the memories, the sweet memories are always here. It felt good to have a time-out and take a breather. It also helps that I finally got a fabulous tan.